Welcome to the Blog about True Love written by Lilac Avonlea (Facebook and Pen name). The purpose of these Blog entries is to raise consciousness and awareness in 2012 about Life, Love and Happiness. As we move forward together on this planet, it will be essential that we strive for Happiness, Seek Love and Live Life to its fullest in each moment. Managing life can be easy or it can be hard...but that hard road leads to hell, so why go that way?
Monday, February 27, 2012
If they LOVE you, You will feel it.
Have you ever wondered if someone loved you? Maybe in high school you wondered if someone liked you or had a crush on you because you liked them and then there was all this wondering. Wonder is a great thing. We should always be full of wonder. We should be wonder-full (wonderful). Love should be innocent and pure. Let me correct that: Love IS innocent and pure and should be treated with respect for being that way. Love is pure and exists in the spirit and the soul. When love is there between any people, it is felt and seen. There is nothing to wonder about. For that matter, when love for a group of people is there, the power of that Love is greatly multiplied!
To Love or be Loved takes confidence. If you want to be loved, then believe you are loved. If you want to show love to anyone, believe that they are receiving it. The difficulty comes when the person you want to show love to is not receiving (open) to it. But don't give up. Love them anyway. Just don't martyr yourself to convince them they are loved. The receiving is on their shoulders and only they can do that.
One of my problems for my whole life has been that I have perceived myself as being rejected in Love. What was really happening was that instead of focusing on the people who wanted top receive me and my love, I only saw the ones who were NOT open to receiving or who took my love and did twisted things with it. Now that I realize the pain this causes on the Love Giver (me), I no longer do this. I offer Love, I show Love, I give it away...and then I allow my intuition to guide me. If I see that I am being loved in return, I gain confidence in the person or group that is reflecting back to me what I am giving to them.
This mirror-image concept of love is the real deal. This is what real love actually is. I will mention once again, Jesus Christ and the Christ consciousness of Love. The Christ Love is to give and not receive. The martyrdom was not for attention or to be loved. In fact, Christ (in my opinion) never intended to create the religious movement named for him. He intended to demonstrate Love's Power in overcoming death. In other words, he intended for believers to witness a resurrection and therefore know the power of real love.
So love is a mirror reaction. I want to mention a dear friend. She means so much to me especially today because in the past few months we have not seen each other much and not because we are growing apart or do not love each other. Recently she reached out and just asked me if we were ok. She was not aggressive, did not complain or cause me grief or suggest that I was unloving. Nope...she knows that is not why we haven't connected. She knows that I love her. And even more importantly, she loves me. And Love is blind to many things and would never assume the worst of the one they love.
That is why Dawny is one of my dear soul mates. Her love shows me the polar opposite to another relationship that I was forced to abandon last year. In the "bad" relationship, I was accused of things and harassed and misunderstood and put on the defensive. It was the exact same situation with the only difference being the hearts of the two people. You see, my Dawny is open to Love and she is willing to receive and to give it. She believes that the best part of me is the predominant part. I appreciate being trusted like that. It feels very good.
And so this week, I will reach out to ones I have not seen in a while and make sure they are feeling the love. It is so urgent right now to really give love freely to all people...show you care...really care for one another. If someone is sick or home-bound or discouraged or battling with emotional troubles and you know about it...do something...anything. Just let the person know they are not alone. I wish you all a lot of power to do this. I will be sharing my vibration of deep love to all, everyday when I meditate. I want to see a United and Loving planet and I believe it can be achieved.
Love everyone and Be blessed,
AngelMarie
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This is very powerful stuff- LOVE this blog!
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